Parents and mentors of children always expect them to do well in every aspect of life. However, because of such expectations, we may be putting the child under unnecessary pressure. These expectations might sometimes create an aversion from things that could actually benefit the child. Therefore, it should be our responsibility to encourage our child to pursue things without making it a burden for them.
In today’s world where everyone desires to excel, we as mentors also face undue stress pushing us to drive our children to study sincerely and perform well in academics at any cost. To combat the same, here are some ways which can help you understand help child common learning issues.
Motivating and communicating with your child
The best thing that we can possibly do as a parent in motivating the young workforce to study is to accompany them while they study. W e can start by helping them, making them understand concepts and clearing their doubts. Encouraging learning and guiding them through their doubts and mistakes promotes a sense of belongingness.
Although good grades are important, if your child is struggling with the course material, it would be wise to change your approach. Asking your child about their day to day activities in the class and about what they learnt in the class initiates a friendly atmosphere. This makes them feel that there is always someone to seek help and guidance from.
Talk to your child about what they did in every subject in the class and which topic piqued the child’s interest. Discussing studies together develops a keen interest within the child.
Introduce healthy discipline on the basis of your child’s comfort
Anything that is followed systematically always yields a positive outcome and the same goes for studies. Sit with your child on their study table and help them make a schedule. Try and make sure they adhere to it. Studying does not always require you to do homework. A balance of social and academic activities is essential.
Maintain a proper environment of study
Make sure there are no distractions such as loud noises in the vicinity of your child’s workplace. A peaceful environment matters a lot to learn ones lessons with dedication. A child has a variable attention span and may get easily distracted.
If you notice that your child has been struggling to score in a particular subject, or is hesitant to study a particular subject, you should get in touch with the concerned teacher. Together, the teacher and the parents can always work towards developing the child’s interest in that subject, eventually improving the grades.
Tell your child that it is okay to fail sometimes
Failures are a part of life and are not the end of the world. Taking mistakes as a learning experience may prove to be the best lesson you could ever teach your child. Even if your child gets low grades, refrain from scolding and do not in any situation compare them to their friends or peers. Encourage them to learn and cultivate empathy on your part.
Appreciate their achievements
Acknowledge all their achievements, irrespective of your scale of success. Everyone likes a pat on their back every now and then, and so do the kids. Respect what they choose to celebrate. You must acknowledge and appreciate even the smallest of achievements. This not only makes the child happy and elated but also keeps them motivated to do well in their future endeavours.
Do not punish your child
Parents often make the mistake of punishing their children when they don’t do their set tasks. Do not punish them, rather you can make their study time a fun time where your child can enjoy and learn simultaneously. Tru and spend more time studying together than leaving your child alone in the room to study.
In conclusion, academics and social activities are a very integral part of life and it is just as common to encounter difficulties in every path you follow. However, it becomes our duty to help and guide our children on difficult roads and encourage them to appreciate and cultivate the appropriate morals. Together, we can always overcome problems, eventually rising to be better and strong